The bestselling book on relationships is now even better!
Fully revised for 2019

The new Getting the Love You Want is here!

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Authors Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D. and Harville Hendrix, Ph.D

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Maya Kollman -- Surrendering to Love

Is the answer to a successful relationship found in your ability to surrender to love? If it is, wow, that requires a lot of trust. Obviously we’re willing to try because we are driven to couple up, yet connecting is extremely difficult. According to relationship guru Maya Kollman, “loving somebody, really loving somebody and surrendering to loves forces us to face our deepest fears which are ‘they’ll leave me or they’ll die.’” Kollman says that love – that connection – is the key to our very survival as individuals. She says we are really good at finding “the” partner who can fulfill us and help us actualize who we are.

Imago relationship therapy is a highly effective form of relationship and couples therapy that has positively affected thousands of couples around the world. This transformational method of therapy was developed 25 years ago by Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt, and provides resources for couples, therapists, or individuals seeking to find a way to be more effective in their life and relationships.

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Most people are not strangers to the pain and disillusionment of love gone awry. Yet most couples are unaware of the tremendous potential for healing and growth that already exists in their relationship. Get your journey off the ground with an Imago Workshop.

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We believe so strongly in the Dialogue that we physically design our sessions around it. There are no couches or desks - you sit facing your partner, so it’s easier to talk to each other. An Imago Therapist sits between you, acting as facilitator for your conversation. Imago believes our job is to empower you to strengthen your own relationship.

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